Men too has a day

        I often wonder why society, media, and even most of the men supports and highlights the difficulties that women do have. Why don’t men have difficulties? This is another side of the coin which the modern society is not willing to see.

May be, this side is filled with dirt that some men do, because of which all the men in the society suffers. Male chauvinism, even though is not in peaks, failure in the perception of media has portrayed it in peaks. This thought in the media and society should be diluted. But, in today society, if we truthfully speak, men suffer a lot than women. I’m not criticizing women or supporting men now, I’m trying to get through on the causes, why not the worries of men are not in the limelight. As a survey from Harvard says, men have changed a lot in last 60 years, in behavior, family responsibilities and helping a woman. But, men today are considered just as ATM machines.

Not as a joke, on a scale of 1000 stories, in 999 stories men are the people who get deceived and if a woman gets deceived in the remaining 1 story it will be highlighted by the society and media. Where the remaining 999 stories of men are left to deep depths. Men do have a lot of sufferings than woman. Almost all risk jobs and done by men and all risk decisions are the headache of men. Men are the people who get affected by heart attacks very soon, due to continuous stress and tensions in decision making. We don’t we have any media or an NGO which highlights the worry of a man as women do have. But as above, in the 999 stories when a man suffers nobody cares. But if a woman suffers in 1 case, we can imagine the scenario. I’m not talking about surveys and scenarios here, I’m not questioning too, and I’m just getting my point to little limelight. We can imagine what stress levels do decision maker have in tough times.

Since, human has emerged on earth, men are the decision makers. Though, men are pictured as demons and virtual ghosts due to male pre-dominant society, there’ve been still many men who look to do better in everything. Why not those men be taken as measurement of men society? Why do people take those some men who are bad as measurement? Why the whole tree does suffer because of some branches?

Maybe this should be because the prevailing male pre-dominant society. But why don’t people see other men who are good, who strives for their families each and every minute, who strived for countries, who strived for society, who could spare all their life for the people who depends on them. Aaah…men are good… many men are good, but when coming to a scale of picturing men people take the remaining some men as samples.

  A recent survey states how the IPC Section 498A is being misused. Women use the section to blackmail man for their selfish needs and silly causes. This is the saddest thing that a man deserves. As a good sign, society seems to be changing; men are getting back their credit they deserve in recent times. After all today is World’s Men Day.. September 19.

This is not to celebrate, or to say the world that we too have a fancy reason to celebrate.. Its all in the cause that UNESCO has brought up. It’s all about male chauvinism...In 492 cases of 500 cases are misusing IPC section 498A... We can’t imagine how it will be... There are some other more cause like this which should be focused as proposed by UNESCO. This day is to just give a glimpse on the solutions for those problems. Not to celebrate it...Why can’t we remember ourselves something, which will gives us a something special value..ha....;)

Hats off to men who lays all their life for many reasons…

Life is always Good….

Jaibharath.

Source:  Self

Note: Above article is just a voice. No part of the article is meant to hurt or address anybody.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Men's_Day